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Men's biggest fears about dating

2010-07-27 12:30:09

Imagine you are on a date with the person you are really attracted to. It goes really well, until IT HAPPENS! So what's your biggest fear? You would probably not be surprised to learn that men and women have different fears while dating. Have a look if anything of the following has actually happened to you on a date!


Men's fears, let's mention the few:


1) Saying the wrong thing. If you are afraid burp, or blurt out the wrong name when talking to your date just relax, take a deep breath, apologize once and explain that you are simply a bit  nervous.
2) Doing the wrong thing. Possible scenario you might worry about:You set your menu on fire by one of the candles on the table, swallow some water down the wrong pipe and spend the next five minutes gasping for air. Relax. Everyone makes mistakes, so why obsess about it?
3) Getting food stuck in your front teeth. You could spend the entire evening not smiling, but that's not much fun Run your tongue across your teeth from time to time, check a mirror in the bathroom!
4) Getting an erection. The last time – relax! ;) Most women probably won't notice. If she does notice, she'll likely be flattered . If this happens, don't spill some water on yourself as a distraction though.
It doesn't matter what your biggest fear is, try to put it into perspective and then put it behind you. The best thing is, they usually make for great stories for your grandchildren later on!

Jolanta Rudzka-Gowda (MA in Social Science) is a therapist with a wide range of knowledge about human relationships.
She has explored the fields of psychology, psychotherapy and coaching. She has got a Diploma in Advanced Hypnotherapy and during her work she uses the following techniques for accessing subconscious mind: hypnosis, regression and NLP.
For more information about Jolanta please visit the website www.hypnosisinthecity.co.uk.
The areas she can help with are: subconscious mind and its impact on our life, influencing other people through our behavior, body language, non-verbal (unconscious messages) we send out to others, self worth and confidence in relationships, independence, problems with relationships, personal development.